"Hope starts with reality," Dr. Clay Stauffer intoned, "and Fear is a bad advisor."
I would have said, "No. Dreams father Hope." Clay is right. The launchpad for dreams is made of concrete.
Hope and Fear dominate most lives.
Easy to hope if we are healthy and safe. How could cancer's reality bring buoyancy? What about betrayal? What about any loss, especially when hopes for national unity seem distant?
No depressed person says, "I feel so hopeful." When flattened by life, optimism was as unattainable for me as Pluto.
Radical Loving Care® ("Radical," meaning love beyond expectations) encompasses radical hope. Both live outside the box.
Caregivers know what once startled me. That many cancer say, "It was the best thing that ever happened to me."
Miles* (pictured), a profoundly mature 20 year-old also surprised me recently by reporting, "My parent's divorce was one of the best things in my life."
These radical hopers found joyful surprises beyond the box. How?
The cancer survivor said, "I learned fearlessness." Miles (pictured) acquired "two great new step-parents and three siblings."
These two show us the path to Life's fountainhead: Hope.
-Erie Chapman
*Miles Chapman, my oldest grandson - 9/23
